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To the husband with a controlling wife

“I found us a babysitter for next weekend,” I say as we begin winding down for the night. “That’s great! What do you want to do?” you ask while taking off your socks. “Maybe you could plan something for us? Anything is better…
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What this summer taught me about my marriage 2017

1 | My husband takes me for granted sometimes. And then I sit and list all the ways he takes me for granted and try to get all mad about it. And wouldn't you know, I take him for granted too. But then there's Grace. Thank God for Grace. Being…

When Love Languages Collide

He walked out the door completely unaware of the tears I was about to shed as soon as the back door closed. He would go outside and work in the yard oblivious to the storm brewing in my heart. I wish I could say later that night while laying…

How I realized we weren't REALLY fighting about where to eat

Satisfaction and contentment twinge in my heart while I fasten her diaper. It’s a small feeling that I get almost every weekend. It’s a quiet feeling that you don’t really recognize but you know it’s there. I quickly dress Sister and…
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Three ways NOT to date your spouse

I double checked myself in the mirror before walking back out. Murmurs of friends, families and couples drifted through the walls. I tucked loose strands of hair behind my ears, wiped away mascara smudges, took a deep breath and set myself to…

When I realized my husband wasn't enough

I hear our heavy back door thud shut. Husband is home. Thank God. I’m upstairs chasing a naked Bubby, trying to convince him that a bath is a good idea. I’ve got Sister squirming on the floor, waiting for me to nurse her so she can go to…

Onesies like this drive me bonkers

When I saw this onesie almost two years ago I chuckled and rolled my eyes. Just another parenting joke that presents dads as inept helpers around the house. Clearly dads need this onesie to understand the obvious. It's just a onesie. No big…

5 Ways Traveling with Kids Will Improve Your Marriage

I wish I could say that Mike and I traveled the world before we settled down to start a family. We did your typical yearly vacation to tourist attractions in the U.S., but nothing over-the-top. No trips to Italy to boat the canals of Venice.…
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Maybe Being Angry in your Marriage is a Good Thing

Sometimes I get so angry with my husband that I can’t even begin to explain what that anger feels like. I get incredibly frustrated. Like I just want to pull my hair out. Literally. Anything to take my mind off how angry I am. Sometimes…
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A Love Letter to My Husband

Early in the morning, rolling in bed, fluffing the covers, your soapy husband scent tickles my nose and wakes me. I inhale the familiarity and think to myself, “home.” Comfort. My home is where my heart is and you hold my heart. You’ve…

Why I Quit Rolling my Eyes at My Husband's Sports Obsession

The NFL theme song echoes up from our basement, signaling the start of the game. My husband has his traditional caffeinated beverage (usually Mt. Dew, but sometimes it’s this tea he makes that is his grandmother’s recipe) and he sits in…
When husband feels like a roommate
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When Your Spouse Starts to Feel Like a Roommate

Exhaling loudly, I let myself fall onto our couch. I scan the room for the monitor to check if Mike is still praying with our toddler upstairs. I glance in the kitchen and see the dishes that have yet piled high again. The dogs are whining,…
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Is it OK to love on my husband when I don't feel like it?

Spices are in the air. The heat from the oven overwhelms me as I take out the rolls for dinner. Clanking from the corner as Asher decides a spoon is the best for banging against his plate. Dogs are licking up flying food. Steam from the stove…
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I Am Not my Husband's Holy Spirit

I've been wanting to write about this for a while now. I know some friends of mine who would love to change things about their husbands. Don't get me wrong. We love them and there are so many things we wouldn't ever want to change, but I know…

Marriage: Laughter Instead of Anger

Ken Davis cracks me up! I've always appreciated his humor and enthusiasm for life. If you've never heard of him, you should check him out. This video makes me think of Mike and me later down the road. Shoot, we're about like that now when we're…
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Marriage Is Hard

Marriage is hard. This sounds like the Biggest. Understatement. Ever. (This post may contain affiliate links, so if you click and buy anything, I get a tiny commission. Thank you!) I recently have been reading the book of Matthew in The…

Secret Power of Speaking God's Word--Confessions for Wives

  I started getting frustrated with Mike. Like it was his fault or something. So the little time we did see each other was turning into bickering and annoyance. The fifteen minutes in the morning was turning in to who can get the last…